Beautiful Doesn't Mean Perfect

Scrolling through my Facebook newsfeed the other day, I came across a post from a friend titled, "Because Who Is Perfect?" Intrigued, I decided to examine this further. The video below comes from Pro Infirmis, an organization for the disabled. The group created a series of mannequins based on real people with physical disabilities in attempt to raise awareness for people with special needs.  

As a fashion lover, I immediately related to the impact of the industry on aesthetics and appearance. With smooth, plastic bodies lining the windows in nearly every retail store, our perception of beauty is incredibly skewed. I'm sure that many of my readers can relate to the internal and external pressures we face to look "perfect," whatever that even means. I found that this project is important to recognize because of its efforts to include body diversity, thus abandoning the "cookie cutter" mentality of beauty in terms of weight, height, body type and age. 

As an English student, I saw the relationship between this video and some of the essential questions we are discussing in class. Specifically, I related it to the question, "how do we understand others' experiences?" Using the idea of empathy, this project from Pro Infirmis allowed me to notice and value the struggles individuals with disabilities face, as well as the pressure that the media places on people to be perfect. As we discussed in my English class, empathy is important to learn for developing relationships in a multitude of situations. Promoting the acceptance of people with special needs and combating the idea of perfection increases empathy by provoking reflection, as the video above illustrates by showing a wide range of reactions from people as they walk by the store front. 

As readers, I hope that you found this video interesting and take some time to reflect on the power of empathy. Typically, those who are able to feel empathy towards others have more successful and caring relationships where communication about emotions is prevalent. I know that empathy has many pros and cons, which is why I would love to hear your thoughts on a few of the questions that were raised for me when discussing empathy in class and delving further into it with this blog post. 

• What does empathy do to us? What does empathy do for us?
• How does empathy impact our identity?
• Is it possible to be too empathetic?
• How does appearance shape our identity?
• What does perfection mean to you?